Since the start of the year, I’ve been writing the content for my new website and it has been bending my brain. Telling my story through my practice is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.

If you had to choose three to five unforgettable moments in your life, what would they be? I’m looking for a moment, so instead of “your wedding,” what was a moment at your wedding that stands out? 

On Zoom with my web designer yesterday (working on my spanking-new site coming soon!), she told me a story about storytelling.

Last month, I wrote about the idea of celebrating ourselves – finding internal validation rather than seeking external, and how it changes the way we show up. It got a lot of response from many of you (thanks for sharing your reflections with me.

It’s that time of year, my year-end traditional piece of content. Like your favorite holiday movie, you (hopefully) don’t get sick of it, and, similar to that movie (again, hopefully), it’s a new experience each time – you get something out of it you didn’t last year. 

Since we’re in the season of reflection (and lots of sugar), I’m writing in to report back on an experiment that started on my birthday in May. 

I have a dozen or so stories in my personal library that I draw from for my keynote speeches. I choose which stories I’ll include based on relevance to the audience (nonprofit, corporate leadership, or a women’s conference).

It’s been a long time since I worked in a corporate environment as an employee. I had some good experiences—interesting projects here and there, fun holiday parties, good connections with colleagues—but here are the more prominent memories:

“Fast and free buses.” That’s what people call out to NYC mayoral candidate Zohran Mamdani when they see him on the street.

There are two kinds of people: those who lead the energy and those who reflect the energy in the room. Which are you? Here’s a test if you aren’t sure: